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Maybe

June 6, 2016 by Jo Leave a Comment

Janis Joplin
Janis Joplin

 

On the recent flight home from Italy I watched the documentary Janis: Little Girl Blue. Having just seen the 5th Avenue Janis Joplin musical I was interested. (Here’s a funny side note: I was on a girls weekend 10 years earlier to San Francisco and saw a play that was similar to this film.  During the performance a fight broke out in the audience.  I was convinced that, like Rocky Horror Picture Show, it was an act by cult Janis followers.  Turns out it really was a fight. The ushers stopped the production, actors left the stage, audience dressed in weird 70’s clothes got hauled out, show started back up.) Anyway, throughout the film on my flight, Janis wrote letters home. Her mom reads this, “you can’t possibly want me to be a winner anymore than I do.”

Ah, Janis, not being a mom herself, I am not sure she could understand how bad we want our kids to win at life. Janis’ parents wanted her to go to college, marry a good guy, get a good job and mimic their own life. That just did not resonate for Janis Joplin.

It brings me to this question: how do you define success? How do you define success for your children? Janis left Texas at age 20. Janis’ parents longed for her to come home and go back to school. She didn’t. Even though Janis died of a drug overdose at age 27, most would recognize her music today, 45 years later. It’s a sad success story. However, I am grateful I can still play Me and Bobby Magee.

Here’s the lesson: define your own success. Choose what you are called to do. The other lesson for me: don’t pigeon hole the people around you. Let them choose what they are called to do. Just maybe they will surprise you.

For your listening pleasure, Maybe by Janis Joplin

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Dolce Vita

May 31, 2016 by Jo Leave a Comment

Here are a few quick thoughts from a recent trip to Italy. I’ll share more about the trip.

Bidets: say what? Even spell check doesn’t know what I’m talking about. Please give me a little more counter space and pull the extra toilet thingy I have to dance around in the dark to prevent cracking my shin on it. Or, link a YouTube video on your hotel site so I know how to use the darn thing. Well, maybe that’s not a good idea.

Next time I’m bringing my own hairdryer. I’ll take one less sweater to make room for an appliance that will actually dry my hair. And, my hair is thin and normally dries quickly.

hairdryer
Looks a vacuum, right?

 

Rick Steve knows what he is talking about. Absolutely everything in his guidebook and on his website was spot on: hotels, sites and local info.

Expect slow service. Italians never rush through a meal.

The house wine is great. I ordered the Casa Rosa and Casa Blanca on a tip from a friend and enjoyed every glass. And, sometimes it was cheaper that the water. A side note: we met a few college girls one night at dinner; they were having their last meal before heading back to the States after a semester in Florence. I asked what they were most anticipating about home. They all agreed they were really looking forward to not having to pay for water. Some things we take for granted.

It was totally worth it to spend an extra $100 per seat on the long flights for Delta Comfort+.

Washing clothes while in the shower is harder than a dinner companion made it sound.

More later. I am off to celebrate my birthday. How old am? Let me ask Honey and get back to you. After turning 21, my age never much mattered. After all, 30 is the new 30, 40 is the new 40, 50 is the new 50.

 

 

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Tips for the Big Apple

May 9, 2016 by Jo Leave a Comment

Double Tree Suites Times Square
Double Tree Suites Times Square–Sunset view from our room–rooms are cheaper in March

 

Having been to New York City 4 times in the last 3 years, I thought I would share some tips and favorites from past trips. I initially envisioned this post as a trip report with photos of what I did on my last visit. Then another blogger posted an amazing re-cap of her recent visit. Seriously, it looked nothing like the trip I had just taken. Her post was full of cab rides, fancy restaurants, party dresses, high heels and beautiful photography. It set me back realizing what a starter blog I have.

View from Skyline Park
View from High Line Park

 

Truth: I have never been in a cab in NYC. We either walk or take the subway. Once we rented a town car out of desperation and fear of melting like the Wicked Witch during a heat wave. But that was because we couldn’t find an empty cab and we were too far away from a subway station. We have also used Dial 7 to schedule trips to and from the airport.

subway

Truth: I don’t pack high heels for a vacation. That doesn’t sound like a vacation to me. I try to pack light since I don’t want to pay extra for a checked bag.  Ok, Honey might call me a cheapskate.  Where did that expression come from? I can’t wait to head to Italy where there is no addition charge on international flights for a checked bag. Oh, wait.  We are taking in-country train trips and still packing light. Darn.

Michael Symon on the set of The Chew

Google.

I met Michael Symon at a taping of The Chew.  I had wrinkled my noise as the hosts tasted a nutella and cheese roll. At the break he came racing over with the sample and insisted I try one because he saw the face I made at the thought of a dry, hard, cheese and chocolate snack.  (I lose at poker, too.) So, if you have lead-time, google ‘TV shows taping in New York’, or something similar. The Goog will start giving you answers. (Isn’t that beautiful? Was it really that long ago that I had to go the library or buy a book to do a little research?) In the summer the Today show hosts concerts in Central Park, etc. What do you watch on TV? If it’s filmed in NYC maybe you can be a part of the audience.

Warning: If you want tickets to Saturday Night Live, good luck. I think it is a lottery and you have to put in your request a year in advance and be willing to give up your first-born.

With a sunset view, pizza by the slice was the way to go!
With a sunset view from our hotel room, pizza by the slice was the way to go. Can you guess which slice was mine?

 

Yelp for restaurants

We don’t tend to make reservations for restaurants when traveling. Our standard travel policy is to stay away from national/international chains. I know my restaurant friends don’t like the Yelp app. However, in a big city it rarely fails us to find quality, local restaurants. On Yelp, you can search by cuisine, dollar amount and/or proximity. Of course we have had a few duds. Like the time we searched for local barbeque and ended up at a HUGE restaurant by Times Square that was putting out poor quality diner-style fast food. Oh, well.  Life’s not perfect.

Sidenote:  we asked our airport driver where he would buy pizza by the slice.  He said the 1-2 dollar slices with the line out the door. Fresh and hot is always the best!

Our bartender wrote out info on a live jazz bar. Yep, that;s Brussel sprouts on a pizza.
Our bartender wrote out info on a live jazz bar. Yep, that’s Brussel sprouts on a pizza.

Ask locals for recommendations

We ate lunch at a great restaurant right around the corner from a store we were shopping at based on the salesperson’s suggestions. Honey thinks I should I mention we were in a Lululemon store we came across after leaving the ABC Studios. Say what? What was I doing in there? Can’t help myself. #luluaddict

We asked the bartender what he would recommend for entertainment. We often sit at the bar so we can chat with others. Also, we can almost always get a seat even if the main dining area is full. He asked us if we were alone. It was a weird question. We hesitated to answer. Then he clarified that if we had kids with us that would make a difference in his ideas. Oh, OK. Now we can talk to this stranger. We ended up that night at neighborhood jazz club in the basement of an Italian restaurant. Jazz normally is not on my playlist, however, I love live music and it was fun to share the experience with locals in their neighborhood.

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TKTS discount ticket booth

If you are only going to see one Broadway show while in town this may not be the way to go. Instead, buy advance tickets to insure you get the production you want, on the day you want.  In our case, we planned to see several shows and arrived mid-week.  The booth gets busier and busier over the weekend. After you stand in line for your first ticket, your ticket stub is good for a Disney-style fast past for 3 days. The TKTS employees managing lines have great insight on current musicals and give good recommendations based on your preferences. When you get up to the window, make sure you have a couple of choices in case you don’t like the seat options.

New York Subway App

The city has an amazing subway system that is fast and easy to use. It makes all of Manhattan accessible. Our first trip to NYC we trained into Grand Central Station from the Newark airport. From there our plans were to take the subway up to Times Square. We had diligently researched what train we needed, the time it left the station and what platform we needed to stand on. Sounds a little like Harry Potter, doesn’t it? We checked and rechecked the information and as we stood waiting for our train, suitcases in tow, backpacks on our shoulders, a train arrived. It did not have the same number as our info. A local asked, “Where are you going?” Honey told him Times Square. He then said the arriving train would take us there. We hesitated. As he hopped on, he turned around and sternly stated,” I’m not f$*#ing around. GET ON.” Startled by his passion we clambered on during a busy rush hour. That’s when we found out about this app. Apparently the transit authority had issued an alert that our train number was out of service. We would have been waiting along time. Hello platform 9 ¾.

Top subway tip I can offer: get on any train headed in the direction you want to go and you can find your stop from there. This is the app we used: New York Subway app

And, the last suggestion

Don’t spend a lot of time standing on corners waiting for a walk signal. It will be a sure sign you are a tourist. If the road is clear head across with the rest of the New Yorkers who never stand in one place for too long.

 

 

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Time flies when you’re having fun

March 8, 2016 by Jo Leave a Comment

flag pavillion on Liberty Island
flag pavillion on Liberty Island

 

Good morning.  I was hoping to say that yesterday and share a few highlights from a recent trip to New York City.  Instead, I arrived home late Sunday night tired and stuffy and staring at a pile of laundry and mail.  Writing a blog post fell down the priority list.  I went to bed with my suitcase full of dirty clothes, only removing my glasses.  I figured with the time change, I would wake up early and have it complete before the rest of my Monday took over.

Then the morning snow balled.  I won’t bore you with stories of blank PDF tax files and mysteries of Adobe and windows 8 and hours spent solving these mysteries. I will instead offer a check in to let you know I understand that life can derail your plans. And maybe offer a little encourage to stay flexible during times of frustration, long lists and runny noses.

New York, New York.  More on that later.

 

 

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